No, I’m not really asking you if you think I’m hot. I do, however, want to talk to you guys about body confidence. For as long as I’ve been aware of my own and other girls’ bodies I have felt jealous. I can’t help but wonder that if I was skinny, tanned and ‘hot’, would I finally be satisfied? Even happy?
I’ve been in a great, strong and loving relationship for 3 years now. He’s amazing, funny and seems to fancy me no matter what I look like. But over the last few months, I’ve become increasingly withdrawn in our relationship. Sex used to be fun, a thrill. Now I have become so anxious about taking my clothes off that it’s ruining the passion that we once had. Making love isn’t so sexy when I’m constantly tugging the covers up to my chin. I’ll barely kiss with the lights on as it might rub my makeup off. Isn’t that sad?
I just don’t know what to do any more. So, I’m asking you guys for advice? Have you gone through a dry patch? How did you rekindle the spark? What can I do to get out of this funk?
Love, A x